You live with your boyfriend of 2 years who has a ring to propose, but has yet to propose. It’s been almost a year. When asked about the delay, the reply is, “I don’t know.” You both want kids, you’re both thirtysomethings. The relationship ranks as “meh, rarely” on the intimacy scale. Certain details are less than expected, but you get along for the most part. Push comes to shove time is rapidly approaching.